RRrrrrrr. Don't you hate being annoyed? It's SO easy to get annoyed. Some days it just seems like I'm just surrounded by the dumbest people. Then I come home, frustrated with everyone else's negligence, and then I'm totally negligent and do really annoying things. I'm aware of some things that I do but I bet I do even more than I realize.
So I took Dr. Harley's love busters questionnaire. To take it, click on this link, go to the webpage, and download the "love busters questionnaire". marriagebuilders.com
I realized that I'm most hurt by disrespectful judgments. In light of these really negative scenarios, annoyances seemed a lot less important. Andrew had similar results but he was also hurt by angry outbursts.
I'm really glad we took this quiz because I didn't realize what made us tick. I'm going to make it a priority to control my anger as much as possible. I started out thinking that annoyances were so.... well, annoying. But annoyances are apart of everyday life. Annoyances don't typically ruin marriages. I will work on positivity and patience. :)
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